Mary J. Blige Only Has Eyes For Men Who Can Secure The Bag she says

 "All I really want is to be happy. To find a love that's mine, it would be so sweet." -

Mary J. BligeMary J. Blige has had a tumultuous couple of years, but as always, she has prevailed and come through on the other side as the true boss that she is, even in the midst of a messy divorce.

Although neither Mary or her ex, Kendu Issacs, have been public about the details of their settlement, it was reported that the Umbrella Academy star was ordered to pay $30,000 in temporary spousal support while they were coming to an agreement.In court, she alleged that Kendu spent more than $420,000 on travel expenses with his mistress, was driving around in a Mercedes that she pre-paid for, and since Mary was the sole earner in the household, a total of more than $10,000,000 in debt fell on her alone.

 In March of last year, their divorce was finalized and the singer is now making it clear that she won't be falling for the okey-doke the next time around.Mary sat down with BBC Radio 1Xtra to talk about her newfound single life, which she says is like a breath of fresh air. She explained: